Pissed doesn't even begin to say what I am right now

I'm so pissed off right now. I was passed up on for a promotion because I was to laid back. Last time I applied for this position, I was to social and that was why I was passed up. I don't get it, those are bad qualities? I would think you would want someone that didn't get stressed out, didn't let things really bother them as a manager. Someone that was calm and collected. Someone that had the skills and knowledge to get the job done. I'm so pissed off I can't even finish this blog!